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Couples renew vows on Siesta Beach on Valentine's Day


  • By Ian Swaby
  • | 11:25 p.m. February 14, 2026
Don and Tammie Gursky prepare to renew their vows.
Don and Tammie Gursky prepare to renew their vows.
Photo by Ian Swaby
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For Marge McCarthy and Patrick Hinchliffe, joining hundreds of other couples in renewing their vows on Siesta Key Beach on Valentine's Day, was part of a major milestone.

The couple's 50th anniversary will be on July 4, while Hinchliffe turns 75 in August, and McCarthy turns 70 in September. 

Their year will also involve a grand tour that includes seeing Phil Rosenthal, the creator of "Everybody Loves Raymond," in Fort Myers, as well as other fun moments.

Fifteen years ago, the couple went through a rough patch and wasn't sure their marriage was going to work. Ultimately, they decided to recommit to one another in 2010. 

"It took a long time, but we have cultured it, and then we nourished it, and we make sure that we thank each other for the littlest things," McCarthy said. 

"I think we are each other's reason to continue," Hinchliffe said. "I can't imagine laying in bed and I wake up and I have nobody smiling at me, nobody to tell a joke to, nobody to, 'Hey, I dropped that.' I mean, I have enough trouble bending over to pick something off the floor... We're each other's strengths."

The "Say 'I Do' Again" vow renewal ceremony is hosted on Siesta Key Beach each year by Sarasota County Parks, Recreation and Natural Resources, and in recent years has been officiated by Judge Stephen Walker.

Among the other couples who turned out were Tammie and Don Gursky, who will be married 49 years this year. 

"He asked me again and I said yes," said Tammie Gursky. "We come out most years. We have been in rain and cold and heat, and it is good to just remember why you got married in the first place."

 
Tracy and Pavan Mediratta prepare to renew their vows.
Tracy and Pavan Mediratta prepare to renew their vows.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Meredith and Michael Punt prepare to renew their vows.
Meredith and Michael Punt prepare to renew their vows.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Rick and Nancy Crist, and Patty and Mike Gross prepare to renew their vows.
Rick and Nancy Crist, and Patty and Mike Gross prepare to renew their vows.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Jerry and Ruth Payne enjoy a dance.
Jerry and Ruth Payne enjoy a dance.
Photo by Ian Swaby
The non-denominational ceremony was led by Judge Stephen Walker.
The non-denominational ceremony was led by Judge Stephen Walker.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Natalie and Troy Duquette renew their vows.
Natalie and Troy Duquette renew their vows.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Patrick and Beverly Lyons dance on the beach.
Patrick and Beverly Lyons dance on the beach.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Stan Honig and Jody Ferrer renew their vows.
Stan Honig and Jody Ferrer renew their vows.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Michael and Martha Deville stay during the sunset.
Michael and Martha Deville stay during the sunset.
Photo by Ian Swaby
The non-denominational ceremony was led by Judge Stephen Walker.
The non-denominational ceremony was led by Judge Stephen Walker.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Patrick Hinchliffe and Marge McCarthy raise their hands due to being among the couples celebrating 50 or more years together.
Patrick Hinchliffe and Marge McCarthy raise their hands due to being among the couples celebrating 50 or more years together.
Photo by Ian Swaby
Caitlin MacDonald, 6-month-old Ava MacDonald, Kevin MacDonald and 9-year-old Ella MacDonald pose in a photo area.
Caitlin MacDonald, 6-month-old Ava MacDonald, Kevin MacDonald and 9-year-old Ella MacDonald pose in a photo area.
Photo by Ian Swaby

 

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Ian Swaby

Ian Swaby is the Sarasota neighbors writer for the Observer. Ian is a Florida State University graduate of Editing, Writing, and Media and previously worked in the publishing industry in the Cayman Islands.

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